Guide to Bondage – Darker Kink

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Guide To Bondage – Darker Kink


I recently wrote my guide to beginner’s bondage and wanted to conclude this with a more advanced bondage post. If you are anything like me and my husband, we didn’t want to stop at wrist cuffs and under bed restraints, our kinks just got kinkier and we seeked more advanced options.

So you have tried simple restraints and are looking for something a little more advance so what do you try?

With so many new bondage products on the market today, it’s much easier for us kinks to get our hands on some really cool bondage gear. So for this post i am just going to share some of these products with you, and what it is that they do, as well as some information about the art of Shibari (bondage rope art). If you are new to bondage, please read my Guide To Bondage – Beginners Kink post.

Kinker Bondage Gear

So you have tried wrist cuffs, wrist to ankle, hog ties, bed restraints and variations of these and are feeling ready to take the next step. Really, once you are at this stage the world is your oyster. With a little imagination, your bondage sessions could take on a whole new dimension.

Here is a list of different restraints you could try

  • Bondage mittens – Used to restrict the wearers hands, they are secured around the wrist stopping their hands from grasping. They usually have rings so that other restraints can be connected to them.
  • Full arm Binders – These in case the wearers whole arms and are usually tied/secured from side or back. Normally used to restrict the participants arms behind their back. Very secure.
  • Body Bags/sleep sacks – designed to keep the participant as immobile as possible, similar to a sleeping bag, with secure fastenings. I haven’t had any experience with these yet myself.
  • Bondage Hood – These hoods are worn over the full head, please always use these with safety precautions in place as this may restrict the wearers breathing.
  • Bondage Harness – A full body harness usually made from leather, great for dressing up in during your kinky play sessions.

  • Bondage Collar – worn around the neck, can be attached to a leash, sometimes worn in public to symbolize that the person is a submissive. This is my favourite bondage item.
  • Spreader Bars – A ridged, usually adjustable bar that attaches to the ankles, and spreads the wearers legs. Great for a very secure leg restraint, especially if the participant is a wriggler like me. hehe
  • Ball Gag – a strap with a ball attached to it, the ball is put in the wearers mouth and the strap secured around their head. restricting the wears speech. KD makes we wear this when he knows i’m going to be particularly vocal during a play session.
  • Ball Lock/chastity belt – want to lock your gems away? then this is for you, worn by either male or female, normally made from metal and secured with lock and key.

Hopefully this gives you a good selection of new bondage items to try, always remember to use a safe word or signal, not normally used during your play sessions.

The Art Of Shibari

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For me, when it comes to bondage one of my favourite things is shibari, an amazing type of rope art. I love watching my husband sit and practice his knots, waiting in anticipation to see what he will come up with next, and in what crazy way i might be bound or suspended.

The only thing you need for it, is bondage rope and a willing participant. The bondage possibilities are endless and stretch as far as your mind can take you. Not to mention the fact that some of the rope work is beautifully detailed and made with love and lust.

It’s a great way to explore a more advanced option of bondage and you can find a lot of information free on the internet about it, including step by step guides on youtube. This is really worth looking at if you are bored of the common restraint set, combos.

Bondage Journey

Bondage is such a kinky addition to our play sessions, we still try new things even if we are not sure if we will like it. We have both learned, never say never, when it comes to our BDSM practice. I can’t count how many things we have been unsure of, then gone on to love.

Take your time when trying new things, discuss them fully. Bondage is always so much better when you are both comfortable and eagerly willing.

 

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I am not an expert, always seek professional help where applicable. The opinions on this post are my own, this post has been written from my personal experience or knowledge. I do not take any responsibility if my advice or the products I recommend don’t work for you. Everyone is different therefore it is impossible for me to know if the product or advice I give will suit your needs. These are just my personal experiences and accounts, and are intended to be used only as a reference. Some of the products I test are made from porous (non- body safe materials). To check if a product is safe please see HERE
 

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