Want a threesome? Think again

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I have seen a lot of posts in the last week about having threesomes, so thought why not jump on the band wagon and write my own. I’ve had a threesome and can give my accounts of what it was like for me.

Who was it with?

It was with a friends with benefits guy and one of my best female friends. So one guy two girls. For this post lets call him Matt and her Jane.

How did it happen?

We had all been on a night out and decided to go back to my place to continue drinking. Jane and me where dancing about in our usual silly fashion, she decided to start dirty dancing with me and with me being a former lapdancer, i couldnt help but return the grind. Lets just say things got a bit heated and before long we where also doing a tongue dance. Matt thought it was really hot obviously and started to join in. Before i knew what was happening we where upstairs in bed together.

So now you have some background information, i can tell you my feelings and how the experience was for me. I enjoyed the kissing and messing about downstairs and was well up for the threesome. Once we got to the bedroom our clothes where off pretty quickly and we were all in bed. I was actually the one in the middle with matt and jane either side of me. Matt was playing with my pussy and Jane was playing with my boobs. I think if i remember it right, i was playing with her boobs and his cock. Anyway all was going well.

There was a lot of moaning and groaning coming from all parties and things were definitely starting to heat up. Matt started to fuck me whilst he played with Janes pussy, and thats when it happened……. I started to sober up a bit. With the alcohol starting to leave my system, i found myself in a situation that suddenly didn’t seem so fun.

I started to worry about the expectations that would maybe be put on me. Would i actually have to lick my best friends pussy or her mine?  How exactly was this whole thing going to play out?. I started to panic about how i was going to live with this. How could me and my best mate continue to be friends?. The more i panicked the more i sobered up and the more surreal the experience got. I found myself involved in this three way and i just didn’t think i was enjoying it.

 

It had always been one of my sexual fantasies, many of my masturbation sessions involved some sort of three way thoughts. The thought of my pussy being licked and sucked by a girl, maybe me being fucked from behind whilst i went down on the girl. My thoughts would always help bring me to climax.

So why was it, that in reality i was actually freaking out?

Well like every other fantasy i have ever had, i called the shots. I was in charge, i decided who was touching me and where. Then and probably most importantly, the people in my fantasy where not people i knew. They were complete randoms, plucked from my imagination.

This was reality, i couldn’t control who was doing what, what was going to happen next. These were people i knew, people i had a connection with, my friends.

I decided that this wasnt for me and i didnt want to wake the next morning to something i was going to regret. I got up and said ” You just continue without me” I jumped out of bed and went downstairs. I just left them too it. Well after all i didnt want to spoil their fun. Shortly afterwards Matt joined me downstairs. He asked me why i bailed on them. I explained that it just didn’t feel comfortable for me. But i was happy for him to go have a good time with Jane.

He was very understanding, he surprised me by saying he didnt want to do Jane (Pun Intended). without me. That the reason he was turned on was not her but me. That without me there, he was not turned on. I was obviously relieved that he was so understanding. We actually ended up fucking right then and there. Just the two of us.

Afterwards Matt went home and i jumped into my bed, with the then snoring Jane. My thoughts raced. How was tomorrow going to go. Would it be awkward with Jane?. I really hoped this wouldn’t change or friendship in anyway. What if we couldnt get over the awkwardness?.

The next morning when i woke up Jane was gone. Her side of the bed was made and a sudden panic ripped through me. As it turns out she was only downstairs having breakfast hehe. We talked about the night before and how we both had been very drunk and silly. She didnt feel the way i did about not enjoying it. In actual fact she said she was very turned on by the whole thing. She was disappointed that it had ended prematurely. She understood why it made me feel uncomfortable and we even managed to a have a laugh about the events that had taken place.

Our friendship never changed and we continue to be great friends today. As for Matt well we went our separate ways a few weeks later.

I am not saying everyone who has a three way has a bad experience, you just need to talk to Jane, to see that’s not the case. I do think that if you’re going to give it a try, you may want to go into it with your eyes wide open and most definitely whilst mentally sound and not fuelled by alcohol.

Luckily for me, i have now been able to add this to my list of TRIED AND TESTED, so wont need to go through this ordeal again. I guess from then on my fantasies remained just that. Well apart from the ones i have been able to play out with KD.

For me the whole experience was awful, the fantasy i had played out in my head was not what had unravelled in front of me. I certainly wasn’t as turned on, and touching another women, especially my friend just didn’t seem kinky, it just seemed more seedy and pervy.

 

So for me, my threesome didn’t really match up to my desires, in fact it was over before it even began really. It just wasn’t worth losing a good friend over. If we had went through with the whole thing, i don’t think i would have ever been able to get over it. Me and jane’s friendship would have been effected. Not by her but by me and feeling awkward around her.

So before you jump in feet first, please think about what it is you’re about to do. Think about who its with,  if you will be able to live with the decision you have made. Its a known fact that most fantasies are never what you think they will be in reality. Luckily i was able to identify my discomfort fairly quickly before it went too far. Hopefully you wont make the same mistake.

Thanks for reading

 

I am not an expert, always seek professional help where applicable. The opinions on this post are my own, this post has been written from my personal experience or knowledge. I do not take any responsibility if my advice or the products I recommend don’t work for you. Everyone is different therefore it is impossible for me to know if the product or advice I give will suit your needs. These are just my personal experiences and accounts, and are intended to be used only as a reference.

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